i would probably pick the former therapist myself. i don't particularly like cognitive behavioural therapy. i don't think it's great for long term problems. you say you've had 5 session only. how long did it take you to get to the point you are now? because you're not going to see results straight away.

you say she listens to whatever you have to say- that's because she's getting to know you. you should always be talking much more than your therapist is!