Hello, I read few threads on this forum and I saw that you give great feedback to the questions. This is why I decided to write in order to get second opinion about a personal problem.

I am feeling depressed and lonely. I am not happy with my life even though I understand that I "don't have the right" to feel that way because I have no financial, health or other important problems. Life was good to me, I am well educated, with a good job and relatively good looking. I'm 29 years old.

Even though I have no obvious problems in communication, on the long term I tend to push people away from me. I am not a bad person but rather a explosive and moody. I push away my friends with my strict behaviour and I can't maintain a good relationship with a girlfriend because I feel like we don't match or I don't like them. Sometimes I think that I am asking from others too much.

I catch myself spending more and more time on myown and working more hours. I understand 100% how wrong this is and it is me who is doing it all wrong. I make bad choices on my personal life. I have less close friends now and even them start getting bored of me. I am not depressed all the time, but as far as I know this could escalate and get worse.

I honestly can't understand why i feel this way. I know I should not, yet it affects not only my mentality but also my behaviour towards others. All in all I feel like the years pass by and I fail to connect with other people. Again I understand how stupid this is because I have really no serious problems. The main issue is my character.

What the hell is wrong with me? What would you suggest me? Should I contact a psychologist or I can resolve this on my own?

I apologise for the lengthy message. I hope I will get a response from you.