Read it. Good for you that you have found some good resources. Yeah, I understand the frustration where the "experts" say you can't do this alone, you need a support team... and there ain't one.

BTW here in South Florida, if there is a dispute in a home where the police are called... if there has been ANY physical abuse/contact, the one who did it goes to jail right then... male or female... somebody goes. I think that's a good step in the right direction.

Another thing that interests me is how in a work environment men can make comments to each other, at each other and expect to let it roll off their backs, yet if a woman is involved, it could be against the law!

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