I'm struggling to understand how you get a restraining order without proving possible danger... I'm wondering what it is she told the cops. What if you weren't dxd bipolar and she told the cops that anyway? Wouldn't there be an enquiry of some sort? If she got a restraining order based on a heresay of your dx, doesn't it mean all of us should have to lose custodial rights of our kids when we get dxd? Do you and bf live together? If you don't, this makes even less sense to me. It all sounds way too fishy. Then again, idk how the law works over there... Sorry this happened to you guys