Interesting responses, all, thanks! I think I told ex-T, but she didn't react in any way at all that I can recall. (It's weird how little I can remember of what she actually said to me. ) I haven't mustered the courage to tell current T yet. In any case it's been some time since I SId (though I do feel the urge to do so quite frequently) so I'm not sure it's important enough to bring up.