My boyfriend is a stable, healthy, hard, working man, devoted to his family. He is also really handsome and athletic. I often feel like I don't deserve him. He is so loving and supportive. I have health problems and bipolar disorder. I have been working with my T to develop self compassion and self acceptance. This feel like such a huge blow to my identity. It hurts to be considered a serious danger to someones children. He has told me not to worry about it. It doesn't change how he feels about me. He is convinced it will all get worked out in court.