Your roommate sounds a lot like my Mom, minus the not being able to relat to people part, she's an attention seeker. She always acts as if she is the "victim" and that everyone has wronged her somehow, and rarely take responsibility for her misfourtions and problems, and also thinks she is always right. But if we say anything about her and her behavior she says nothing is wrong and that we just hate her.

And I need my Mom's support, but she seems to not understand what is going on with me, and somehow twists my problems around to make them my falut and that im just seeking attention. She'd rather have me spend a week in a psych ward then have me go to a counsoler.