Was your T trying to get you to react to her or something? T's don't usually say anything like that under any circumstances......wondering if you were holding in emotions & she was trying to get you to express some emotion & chose a horrible way to try?

That's the only semi-rational thinking (& it's not really rational in my mind) I could possibly come up with to figure out where in the world that would even come from.

No way should a T even stay with a patient if they know that feeling exists.......it would be unethical in the first place.......so I'm thinking there was really something more behind what your T said that it being the truth about her feelings.......it's just NOT LOGICAL.....especially with what a wonderfully nice person you are.