((((Pir))))I am sorry you experienced that. I - unlike many others - cannot bear going into antique stores. Used book stores, gently worn clothing boutiques, garage sales and estate sales also aren't my cup o' tea.

I know exactly why I feel this way, too, but I am a little reluctant to share because I realize it may sound completely ridiculous! And a bit nutty.

I also dont want to discount something that many people enjoy / love doing. I know it is quite a beloved, popular hobby / activity.

I do not have a problem with family heirlooms or family traditions but that is probably because it is my (weird as we are) family

I am so sorry you had a panic. I struggle with that. No fun

I hope you will be able to work on this with your T and others here so you can get to the bottom of it and feel better.

Big hugs to you
Rose