I have avoided this thread till now because my joy is very much determined by my husband's happiness and comfort. But having read how your friend is with her husband I realized that I am not that extreme, and certainly not to the point of sacrificing myself. I go out of my way to please my husband but I fight for myself and my needs when I feel it is called for.
You are a good friend to her.
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