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Originally Posted by billi_leli
that's about it. He acts like I am this bad kid, esp when I am jealous of his d cat. (sorry, venting).
I know better. He's hurting too. But the poor bloke doesn't have an outlet except for his therapist and I agree again, he's not a d victim of me! Why do ppl do this to us---except that they are hurting too and sometimes or often have no room for our issues?!
Billi
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Oh you're okay, venting is good, he your roommate just needs a better outlet, and a good reality check, you're trying to be civil with him, but it doesn't always work, all you can do is try, and maybe he'll come to his sensesand take responsibility for his actions and problems, and maybe he won't. I've delt with this type of personality my whole life with my mom, and still don't know how to act towards her on a day to day basis, especially when I need her support, and she seemingly cares more about how it'll affect her, I mean she cares about and lovs me, but she likes to be in denial when it comes to mental health issues, not just hers, but everyones. (venting)
I just hope the best for you and your roommate, hugs
