I'm sorry to hear that is contributing to your depression. I kind of know where you are coming from; my wife had an internet affair last year, and it really bowled me over, stopped me from doing all I needed to, and was a major set-back in my life. A year later (now), I am still feeling the effects...I get through each day by doing the best that I can with the resources that I have. I don't have any contact with the other person, am still married (mostly happily)...and I refuse to let someone else's actions dictate my moods...my depression is realted to what I've done in my life. If I view it that way, then maybe I have a chance to conquer it. If I blame it on someone else, then maybe I will continue in this downward spiral...not sure if that makes sense. I do hope it helps in some way. I'm so sorry that you've seen those pictures and that they impacted you in such a terrible way.