>> 6 months later, I found out he's drinking again.

If he had been drinking secretly and trying to keep you from knowing it, then, bingo, he is an alcoholic.

He has to stop promising you that he will stop drinking and start promising himself that he will stop.

If he is not going to accept serious help with this, you will have to consider your future. If it gets bad, money and security aren't worth living in fear and anger, in my opinion.

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