I might join too but idk if I identify clearly with one population or the other- does that matter? I'm just looking for guidance.

Also I went online and developed a username and password or a local dating site, which one of my friends suggested. It was helpful in the sense that I was excited to do it but once I saw who I was matched up with I got really really nervous. I didn't think any of them were attractive - does that mean I'm scared or just not attracte to those women? Maybe it's too eager of a step for me right now. Idk. How should I proceed? I deleted my account the same day btw- lol