I understand the urge, Squiggle, and I know it's difficult to combat. From my point of view it seems like you're trying to argue with her about her boundaries, and that doesn't seem like anyone's right to determine but hers. But I'm sure you know that.

And I wonder how it would feel if you found out that she's not a normal person who does normal things? I mean, I don't really even know what that means, cause I tend to think that there's a wide range of acceptable human behavior. In other words, with a few exceptions, I think we're all normal, even people whose lives don't look anything like mine. And I suspect that you know your T's life probably looks pretty normal, too. Why does her normalcy matter so much? Would it change the effectiveness of her treatment? Something else?

Just wondering.