((( hugs )))) ~ ~ ~ ((( hugs )))
I too would be upset and some what angry if my husband had made family arrangements without talking to ME about it first..... it might be a little different if he was taking the time off from work and was going to be watching her him self..... but he is not.
Try to VENT it all out here with US so that you and yours will not have any added stress to an already stressful situation.
LoVe,
Rhapsody -