update...
I was able to get in to see my therapist today which helped a lot. Also met with my daughter and her doctor regarding a treatment plan. She is still in so much denial and is struggling with taking care of herself and trying to keep from 'burdening' me. One of the things that came out today was how I need to let her know how well my therapy is going and that is how I get my support which enables me to support her! I'm thinking that if she knows I'm getting better it will be easier for her to come to me when she is feeling down. Funny thing is I totally understand where she is coming from. There have been many times I've wanted to talk to a friend but didn't because I felt like the issues going on in their lives were more important and i didn't want to drag them down. i just never thought of a 14 year-old having those same issues.

I go back to see her and her md on Wednesday and back to see my own on Thursday.

Again, thank you all for being here.