That happens to me too, sometimes, even though I am trying to stay grounded and listen carefully, it's like her lips are moving and i hear the words, but they make no sense to me whatsoever. I haven't reached the point where I have told her that yet though, so I don't know what it means when that happens. I wish I had advice for you, but I do know how you feel! Good luck, (I will be lurking this thread to pick up advice too!) Didn't mean to copy the little smilie guy from the previous post, but it was perfect!