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Jul 03, 2012, 09:37 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Oh bless your heart!  I hope this was just a one time thing, and isn't going to happen again.
You're having enough trouble without being attacked for being depressed!
It's not like we can CONTROL how we feel! We don't WANT to feel like this! And we can't HELP when our appointments are with the therapist, and we can't guarantee that we'll feel better AFTER the appointment either! Sometimes we come out feeling worse! The therapist many times delves into the past, and brings up stuff that we'd rather not remember --- and there we go again, feeling like crap! (pardon) So having someone who is supportive is really important. Getting attacked doesn't help matters. And while I realize there are problems going on, as far as the business, and the wife, etc., she has to realize that things are touchy right now and going on the attack isn't going to solve anything. If you had used that method on her, she'd go ballistic! 
I'm glad it's better today, but like I said I hope it was just a one time thing and it's not going to happen again when things get hairy! You both have to TRY to compartmentalize. I wish you the very best, my friend -- and try to have a GOOD day. Take care. BIG HUGS, Lee
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