I see your system being very different from my own. My pieces mainly hold emotions. Not many have the memory of an event actually happening. But hold the emotion of them. The ones that have memories of events hold no emotions for the event they remember. Like when the trauma happened 2 pieces came forward. One that knows what happened and the other to hold the emotion of it.

One of mine who's 16 is a regular outee. She knows what year it is and even goes to work for us. But if you ask her how old she is she'll tell you 16 and ask her what year it is she'll get it right. For me it's like the body stopped developing for some pieces. They came about at that age and stayed there. Even though they know time has gone by. Only problem I have with her is she thinks she's still in that 16 year old body that's a size zero. So she wants to buy 16 year old girl clothes. Hmmm, doesn't work for this size 12 body.

Lisa