Hi there,
My bf of 5 yeears has depression and anxiety disorder. He is not on any meds or receiving any help at the moment, by choice. In the past he has been on and off meds as he feels they don't work.
He has said some really horrib;e things to me in the past and this week and his solution is to break up so he can be alone in his suffering. How do I show him he can't fight the depression without help?

He;s tried councilling on and off for years and said there's no point to it. I've been supportive, encouraging, given space when required. But when he wants to be left alone he turns to alcohol which never turns out good for either of us. But what's the reason for the nastiness and anger towards me?
He's not apologized as of yet, but for the things he said I would've expected something. I feel so angry towards him but can't show it as he takes it so badly.

He says he doesnt think he loves me anymore, is that the depression talking? I think it is as he's on no help at all, medical or emotional. His doctor said it will be a 8 week wait for councilling. How can that be??