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Jul 03, 2012, 10:40 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Number one is don't let that person bother you -- don't let them live "rent free" in your head. When you don't see them, don't THINK about them and just focus on your studies. If you bump into them, just walk past them - since obviously you don't get along (right?) then you don't have to acknowledge them -- just keep going! 
How are you going to "ruin it" for everyone else in the classes? Everyone is there to learn, right? So they're going to (hopefully) be listening to the Prof. How will YOU ruin things? Just listen like every one else, and things should be just fine!  Don't THINK about other "stuff." Think about the issue at hand - about what you're studying about & what the Prof is saying.
You are NOT going to "mess this up." You'll go to classes and be just fine, if you try. Just focus -- it might be hard, but just focus!!!
You can't keep judging yourself like this - you haven't been on this earth long enough to judge yourself so harshly. You're a GOOD person, and worthy of good things! Treat yourself like you would a good friend - pleasantly, nicely, lovingly. NO JUDGING! God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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