Sounds pretty harsh too me, and very familiar! When I was in middle school, my mom was very Ill, so it was my dad's job to get me up and to school every morning Instant oatmeal for three years, no joke. Instant boogers yuck! my pop's had a method called eat it or wear it! Or he would throw the bowl at the wall and take me too school with no food. I ate everything when I was young... but oats yuck. Sannah is dead on my humble opinion this is controlling behavior especially if the punishments are that harsh. As for them finding your posts on PC you have to be careful with that!!! I can't stress that enough I think a lot if in most people who come to this site want to remain nameless.

hang in there i know how difficult controlling parents can be...