My DH doesn't have anxiety issues--he just doesn't get it, why I need T. I also tried telling him some things, in hopes of deepening our relationship, but he doesn't want to hear it. That makes me really sad, that there's a part of me that he doesn't want to know, a part I have to keep hidden from me. I don't know if that's what's going on with you guys, and maybe it's coming out as anxiety about finances...?

Anyway, I don't have any answers, I just wanted to say you're not alone. I posted a thread recently about feeling lost, and part of that is my husband's uneasiness about the ways I've changed since starting T. I also understand about feeling trapped; that's (to me) kind of the flip side of feeling lost.