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How all of the attachments develop might be a clue too. The abused/controlled develop the disorganized/fearful. Having parents who respond sometimes but not consistently develop the ambivalent/anxious and the neglected develop the dismissive/avoidant. (Not 100%, though)
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I'm an ISFJ
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