Wow Alex, you need to report this, this neighbor is betting on no one believing you.

You need to find a way to protect yourself. You need to tell someone, can you get in touch with the people who dealt with your brother? Surely you must have a name of someone he talked to.

Sorry about your mother Alex, she is clearly still in shock and doesn't know how to handle all of what she has been through. Often what happens is someone can become very afraid to love anyone, even their own children after experiencing something like this. They just don't know how to recover and can become numb. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you, it just means she is at such a complete loss right now.

Where you are staying, is there someone there you can talk to? Surely there must be some kind of help for you.

I am not familiar with what is available in the Netherlands for help with this.

I am SO INCREDIBLY SORRY.

Please come and talk here, we are always here to listen. Maybe someone else will have more ideas.

(((Big Hugs for you Alex)))
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