@suki22 he would be more upset if they bothered him /us. My son is 4 and daughter is 8.

@elbie my husband fears very little. I don't think he understands what its like. Its almost like he feels like its such an irrational fear that our son cant really be scared. I don't know how many times a day I have to say honey he's only 4 or honey she's only 8.

Thanks for listening to my rant