My H is the same way. What did you talk about? Was it really worth 50 bucks? No wander you want tell me what you discussed, It's probobly about me. How much longer is this gonna last? What did you tell her? You can talk to me and save the 50 bucks. Whats so bad you can't tell me? Why would you want to pay her to listen to you complain?
I get so tired of the questions. He goes with me sometimes. It doesn't always help. Then it turns into how much longer do we have to do this BS? Do you really think this is helping? How did she know what, what did you tell her? You really like to make me out to be the bad guy.
Geez I'm right there with you. I can't stand up to my H. I've got it in my head, in reality I freeze. I can't articulate what I want to say. I am intimidatred by him. I hope your T is able to help. I hope the finances become availiable. I am am a stay at home mom to. It's tough. I have worked out payment plans, I've billed my mental health care and paid for it with spare change until I got it paid off. My H got so annoyed he stoped paying all together. I told my T at the next meeting no more $. She suggested I could pay her with change sence we put all our change into a can. When the can got full enough that he wouldn't miss some of the $ take out some and pay her what I could. I also had several relatives saving quarters to help pay. My grandma was happy to save just dimes. I'd roll them and give them to my T. Maybe this would help lift some of the finiancial burden for you?