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That's ridiculous, not talking to you first about having your step daughter over. It's disrespectful. I suggest, if he does it again, tell him to cancel it, and if he won't, don't be there when the visitor comes. Just get out of the house, at least for most of the day. I'm not saying you should be kept from your own home, but let him deal with visitors he invites without your input.


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Yes it was disrepectful. After talking with him, I think he has seen that.
She is my stepdaughter, not a visitor, and as she sleeps over I think I would prefer to stay home.