Thanks adel34. I think my wife does understand, and I probably should not have portrayed her in such a negative light. She has her own issues to deal with (anxiety, mood swings). I think what is going on is that she does all she can to manage her own mood problems, and when I'm doing poorly it is just too much for her to bear.

We're doing the best we can. I do think that she would benefit from some sort of support, whether it is group or individual therapy. But she's not taken a step towards that yet.

I'll keep you all posted on the progress.