isn't it funny, we humans spend so much time looking for something "out there" to come and change or fix or..... "what's 'uncomfortable' in here", when going straight to the source, ie: self examination, is where you have to end up if you want change your silly self. We're real good at beating around the bush and figuring out other people's problems and doing every procrastination we can come up with to avoid the simple fact, the only person we can change is ourselves. The only person who can change us is oursleves.

Biting that bullet, whew, I had to let go of blame.