I totally get that!! the young ones and the teens also just want to have fun and they don't get how stressful it is for mom to try to make sure there are enough resources to go around, that everyone is taken care of and gets enough sleep, etc....it is so hard sometimes. it is a beautiful thing when the kids have a mature moment and do something to help, or show that they understand that other people need stuff too!! it does happen now and then I hope things will ease up on you soon!! hang in there