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Glowiebird · Jul 04, 2012, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Leed

Hi ~ first I couldn't read the part in yellow -- it was just too light.

Second, I think you should just move on, cause if he said he just wants to "be friends" right now, you have NO idea how long that's going to be before he's ready for a relationship and you're right -- he might be saying that to save your feelings. You just never know.

As far as your not being ready for a sexual relationship -- there's nothing wrong with that! The timing just wasn't right! You're not the first person who has had that happen, sweetie. If it didn't feel right, then it's good that you said NO. You would have regretted it if you had said yes and you sure don't want to feel guilty about it. I applaud you for saying no. You have a good moral background and it will serve you well in the future!

You have NO REASON to feel guilty about anything sweetie. I don't know why you do! You're a GOOD PERSON! You have high moral standards. You are as deserving as anyone else of of good things and of being loved! So please don't feel guilty! Take care hon, and God bless. Hugs, Lee

Also when ever i involve myself sexually with a man i feel extremely guilty. See, I've been doing things backwards for a long time.. have sex, then date. i haven't had the strength to deny a man sex. i told myself that if i could.. i really cared about him.

^^ that's what the yellow said . And I haven't had standards for a long time .. I'm trying to be better. It's do hard to let go of him . I just care about him do much , but I know you are right . Thank you for your post . I really appreciate it .