mcl, I agree with what the others said. But if you mainly just want support and not encouragement to try again, then I support you whatever you want to do regarding the latest t or life coach. Obviously you didn't say much about what happened. If it was the life coach, maybe s/he has completely different boundaries than the t's we're used to discussing. Maybe s/he had given you a lot of personal info and/or isn't trained to contain their reactions the way a t does. Just guessing. I know I could be light years off base.