I'm sorry, mcl. I think therapy of any sort (including life coaching) is just an inherently strange relationship. Therapists are as different as anyone else. Who knows why she freaked out. Did she just have a bad day? Did she seem personally disturbed? Sometimes people are intuitive; T's shouldn't automatically think that clients are stalkers because they figure something out.

Seriously, don't hurt yourself. It is not worth it; you're worth more than that!