geez, I think you already know that I have had the same problem with my H for years now. He has always resented my therapy, felt it was a waste of money, and when I did choose to tell him about it, he only criticized me and made me feel bad with his "why don't you move in with her" or some other remark like like that, that really hurts me. He's never, ever tried to understand my problems, even when I was diagnosed with BPD.

I still try to talk to my H about my sessions but it's always a disaster. I wish it weren't that way. I'm sorry you are feeling so angry with your H. I hope that bringing him to therapy will help. He was willing to go to marriage therapy; the way he acts about your therapy seems like something that could be discussed there. Will your T work with both of you on this, or can you go back to the marriage T?