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Old Jul 05, 2012, 07:09 AM
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Please don't be too hard on yourself - I have tons of issues yet like you, I can pick up on things and people. Many times I just keep quiet about what I feel but every now and then I put my foot in my mouth and just say it out.
If your T has issues then you have just helped him realize that he too needs to get things straightened out. Good for you for speakin out - don't do self harm - its kinda a spiral thing - once you start, it keeps happening over and over and over again. We are all for you - YOU DID NOTHING WRONG - be good to yourself -you will either find another T or He will come around
I do feel i have tons of issues...for once i felt like i was developing some kind of rapport with a mental health service provider. Then this. I appreciate your reply. I just honestly feel too humiliated to go back. I have made a deal with myself. I will not self harm but neither do i have to go back. The deal, while not wonderful, got me through the horrible holiday night.