(((rainbow)))) and (((Listenmoretalkless))) you words are exactly what I needed to hear.

Yes I don't want him taking up a bunch of my therapy time and I'm feeling a little pissed about that. Fortunately our two sons will be in the waiting room so he wont be able to stay in the appointment long.

I'm angry that I told my husband "I don't know how long I'll be in therapy" and that wasn't good enough. He kept pressuring me for more info and throwing the scenario of what if the money wasn't there? (and we have no issues with money - we aren't rich mind you but we can pay our bills and live a conservative lifestyle).

I really hope this T tells him where to go. My marriage T told my husband when I go back to therapy she couldn't say how long it takes. Much of it depends on him and his support.
Perhaps this will lead to more marriage therapy?

Post more later after my appointment....