It was really whacked..i blurted something out...sorry i have to be vague and then suggested that we have a wager about it...i bet you..and then backtracked saying i cant take your money...and i am like...you take my money all the time and it just went downhill from there. I was so bewildered. It is like my whole set of perceptions problem has followed me into this t relationship and ruined it. Add this to the fact that it has caused a lot of social isolation and i spent the fourth totally alone and you have a recipe for disaster. I am glad to be going to work because i am very worried and need help. Please dont urge me to call t. T seems really clueless. Thanks for all of your help, gang....mcl