Blue, it is normal for a child to blame themselves. Children need to see their parents as being "right" because they depend on them for survival. Geez is correct, the child tries everything to get the abuse to stop and nothing that they do makes a difference because it is about the parents not them.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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