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Old Jul 05, 2012, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by granite1 View Post
just wondering why cant the gift be personal.especially if it is for your T.i think the elephant is an awsoome idea maybe print out a copy of the meaning it has and give that with the gift.
Idk why it can't be personal. I just got nervous and started googling gift giving to Ts, and I came across this article where it suggests the gifts should not be personal to the giver. Maybe because then it just is more for me than it is for my T?

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...rapist-a-gift/

Printing out the meaning is a good idea. I wasn't going to wrap it or anything so as not to make too big a deal, so I'll have to think about how to work that in. The carved elephant was just going to be in my pocket or something.
Thanks for this!
granite1