Hi Lil Ant, Sorry you're having that prob. Please don't be too embarrassed to tell your pdoc, she/he might have good advice. I had something I was embarrassed about telling my pdoc, dreading it (promiscuity), but when I told her she wasn't at all surprised or judging, she was more like compassionate. And then I was relieved and it helped me work through it.

Regarding flashbacks during... I used to have a similar problem - not the same, but I would get random images or thoughts in my head during sex and couldn't climax. I got over it though thank goodness. But talk to the T or pdoc, I'm sure they'll have advice.