mentally... its the same as phisically only he uses words to hurt me the most. and he knows what to say and how to say it. then trys to appoligize to make it better. and he knows that im a forgiving person. the reason im still with him is because it dident get really bad untill recently i always thought i could handle it. but apparently stress breaks people down. I love him. and also because im following bible rules. it states in the bible that you arnt suposed to leave unless there is phisical abuse. Im not sure where its at but my old preacher teached it one service. I dont want to make any more mistakes that i cant take back. so im trying to abide by him.