That is what I thought at first, Maven... Very sexist or male bashing.... But Rhapsody did fill in the blanks I guess you might say, when she posted full paragraphs to explain the numbered comments... I don't like bland statements such as 'men are unromantic clods or men are insecure, etc.'.....They sound like "angry" statements.....anyway, it is good for ALL opinions when men are the topic. Even tho I don't seem to find good marriage partners, I sure do like men... yup.. i like men lots... but catch me on a bad day and well lol.. neva mind...