I would also say, watch what you wish for, you might get it. the opposite situation, where the man does not ejaculate, is not as much fun as it sounds, either.

so IME, practice makes perfect, but I find if I "lay off" for a while, what used to be "the spot" has shifted to someplace else. That was a welcome surprise! I don't know if I broke the old spot or what, but the new spot works just as well! Honestly, I didn't think i'd ever switch spots! so lube up and look for other spots in the neighborhood, so to speak - women have like jillions of nerve endings, much much more than men.