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Originally Posted by Skope
When he gets really frustrated he blames me for it, says I make him feel this way and if we went together he would be fine. But then when he is sober he knows this isn't true.
He wants to break up, rather than get help as he feels like he will never change, never get better. This is a kick in the teeth to me and I feel lost and helpless.
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The more I read about this, the more it sounds like a substance abuse issue. Can you get your boyfriend to at least entertain the idea of AA? If not, then look for a rational recovery group in your area. A dear friend of mine (now deceased of natural causes) was not a fan of AA; he found an SOS (save our selves) group, and that got him on the track to sobriety, saved his life and improved his marraige.
Rational recovery does not get a lot of press in the US. But there is some information that you might find by simply searching Rational Recovery or try
www.rational.org .
Best wishes to you.
