I feel the same way, my daughter is going to be the one who pays the highest price in my upcoming divorce. This isn't a divorce I wanted, I begged my soon to be ex-wife to try couples counselling for the last 5 years at least.

I just want to yell in her face "I hope you are happy"

But that won't do any good.. and she has done such a wonderful job of just torching any hope of reconciliation at this point it's not something I would even consider.

We will be better off in the long run.. or so everyone keeps telling me.. let's hope for both our sakes that they are right...