((((mtd)))))) many many gentle bear hugs to help strengthen you through this trying time. I have been exactly where you are at and know the unpleasantness of it all. I am sending as many strengthening vibes your way as I can... Please take care and if and when you need to whimper I think alot of us here at PC are willing to lend a helping hand and heart... Linda, anytime you need a shoulder I can listen.