You are entitled to your feelings and opinions Maven. I do not discount them.

Having said that, I would like to reiterate that I did not male-bash, nor was it my intention. Had my husband been a woman, I would have posted the same.

It was NOT about gender for me, it was about something husband did and recognized and apologized for. I sought support, and I received it. Sadly, the thread moved direction.

You can do what you feel is right, who am I to stop you? After all, you are entitled to what you feel.

I would just like to mention to anyone that might still be reading this thread that I did not male-bash, I simply communicated a problem with my husband and that has now been resolved.

If I have a problem with a female friend, I will communicate that too .. and I can guarantee that I will not be female-bashing!

I am sad that my thread took on a direction that was not at all the point.

I seldom come out of my shell to fight back like this but I just don't feel that I did anything wrong here. And sadly, it feels as though I have done something horrible.

I love my husband, it was about what he did and rectified. Not about male-bashing. It was never about that!

I would really hate to feel that I cannot post about these sort of things for fear of it being turned into something it isn't.