I'm glad there are options in whether to change their name or not. With academics and some professions as mentioned above, it can be rather difficult with certifications and licenses to get name changes; I have seriously considered that I will be keeping my last name at this point even if it does become a point of contention by not changing it. However the other side is that, even if the professional aspects weren't an issue, I love my familial name and history, and probably would have kept it as a middle name or hyphenated it anyway out of respect for both families and might still. There is a lot to consider.
Thankfully, no matter what we choose, we do have that choice!
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I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it. -M.Angelou
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. -Anaïs Nin.
It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
-Dalai Lama XIV
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